Birthday flowers & Christmas photo from Natasha
Oh, I received a terrific Birthday card from my almost 16 year old step-son! He lives with his father and me and has for the past 2.5 years. He came to us depressed, miserable, and unhappy with himself and his life. He has a "social" learning disability, Asberger's Syndrome, which makes it difficult for him to read social cues from people's faces. He had great difficulty making friends, was overly sensitive to bullying and teasing. He was small for his age and immature by about 2 years. He had been premature at birth, weighing only 1.5 lbs.
The card he gave me, all on his own, his father said, was signed, "Love: your step-son." That touched me because he had never acknowledged our relationship and certainly never said anything like "love".
I am proud to say that he now has a sense of humor, can laugh at himself and at us, he is on the Honor Roll in 9th grade at Patrick Henry High, is considering going to college, and is a delightful person to have around, willing to help others, was given the Snake Award for Highest Internal Strength of Character in Karate.
3 comments:
Looks nice mom!
And heya!
You're step son is obviously in the right environment for him. I took Kung Fu for a few years, and I've seen kids' confidence improve greatly while I was there. People don't realize that it's not really about fighting. Martial Arts is about discipline and self-confidence. That's so great about his award! Congrats to him--I know it's an achievement.
Hi Natasha, thanks for stoppin' by and commenting!
Thanks, Melissa, I was very proud of Joe! Strength of character is wonderful in my opinion--can't hardly do better than that!
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